Recently, I had a friend say, "You are such an amazing mom". Just like that. I mean -
what? First of all,
"Thanks"! Second of all, I really had been feeling overwhelmed and dumpy about mommyhood in recent days and this
completely changed my outlook...so....
"Thanks again"!
My friend went on to say that she admires the way I play with my kids and be silly, always with a joyful smile on my face. I was so touched that she noticed. Its not always easy to have the energy of my two year old and almost-one-year-old. Its not always easy to run around looking like a weirdo with my kids.
Its not always easy to be a mom.
This lovely comment from a friend completely changed my outlook and made me feel confident. It was a
simple observation on her part and a
simple mention to me, but it was much more than
simple for me. In the week since my friend complimented me, I have focused
more on the parts of mothering that I am best at and
less on the parts of mothering where I feel inadequate.
I've moved forward feeling as though I'm doing a good job with my kids. I am not the same as any other mom, but my kids aren't the same as any other kids, either. I do my best everyday to show my kids how much they are loved and if I focus on that, I can't go wrong. I'm thankful for my friend's observation and comment and how its opened my eyes to
my strengths. In fact, its made such a difference for me that I plan to pass-it-on by pointing out the
amazing qualities I see in other moms.
Way to go, YOU - you're an amazing mom, too.